For a dyi air freshener add a bit of baking soda and a few drops of your favorite essential oil into a spray bottle and fill up with water. Shake before using.

This is great just as room spray, to freshen up clothes or I use one with lavender on my bedding for better sleep.

For a natural lube I’d recommend trying coconut oil or alcohol free aloe vera gel. Here is an Article with some alternatives.

I personally would love the recipe for Yam Lube from the “Grace and Frankie” series. Unfortunately, this seems to be fictional.