Originally Posted By u/AffectionateChart953 At 2025-03-22 01:11:31 PM | Source


  • Dadd Volante
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    3 days ago

    Those countries are much smaller and many have more robust public transportation to reach said protests.

    I have a 12 hour day on the 5th and it kills me not to be able to go

    We’d all be better off with more critical thinking and nuisance in our lives instead of jumping to the first conclusion that reaffirms our bias

    • endeavor@sopuli.xyz
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      1 day ago

      You don’t need to physically attend protests to help. Spreading anti government facts and info all the time, talking to people to open their eyes about the situation is a great help and will do a lot more good than nothing.

      Literally the enemy has an army of bots spreading misinformation. If everyone who said they can’t do anything to fight back realized they have a very powerful weapon that is low effort, trump would have never been elected.

      • Dadd Volante
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        1 day ago

        I have already stated not only to you but others that I already am.

        Stop talking down to me. I’m too old for this shit.

        Take the hint and back the fuck off.

        • endeavor@sopuli.xyz
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          I simply answered to your post, I am not aware nor interested in your entire post history nor are most people going to be. Relax.

          • Dadd Volante
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            No, you’re demanding personal information and telling me what to do for things you have no understanding of

            I’ll not tell you to back off again.

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              Calm down, man. They aren’t telling you what to do, and are just replying to your reply comment from the other persons comment.

              Your comments are starting to seem overly defensive, if you don’t want to take a day off to protest, then don’t, and just don’t reply.

              • Dadd Volante
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                13 hours ago

                I’m being accused, even by you right now, and being a liar

                The fuck

                And it genuinely pisses me off

                So yeah. Fuck showing support. I’ll just see myself out.

              • Dadd Volante
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                13 hours ago

                Actually, the cash app guy IS. The problem is I do. I run a catering kitchen with literally on other person. I do not have time to vet and train a replacement.

                And I’m getting shit for it. “What’s your cash app”, Cool, when I lose this job, are they gonna pay NEXT month’s rent? Cause finding a new one and making bills on time certainly isn’t happening.

                Yeah, I’m lashing out at them (and accidentally one other person) because I know what they’re doing

                Now I’m being accused of “moving the goalposts”.

                “I can’t make it but I wish I could”

                “Here’s money now come”

                “The reasons I can’t make it aren’t just money”

                “Find someone to do your job for you in two weeks. What’s your personal info so I can send money”

                “Can you please understand I’m not in a situation where that’s possible”

                "No, I have money (for one month’s rent tops), you just hate your country and won’t fight for it

                Ya know, this same site that talks about capitalism, people struggling to make ends meet and living paycheck to paycheck, and I’m being made to feel like shit by one in particular person who apparently doesn’t have money worries, simple solutions to everything, and thinks I’m moving goal posts when I try to explain my situation and why it isn’t simple, all the while pointing out that as a country, we lack critical thinking skills, demand simple answers to everything, and simple solutions.

                And I’m being responded to with exactly that, by someone fricken gatekeeping the fact that they have enough disposable income to pay my rent

                For a month. I doubt I’d see them next month

                Fuck just trying to give support though. Gotta love feeling worse than I already do.

                Maybe I really am too old anymore.

      • Dadd Volante
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        3 days ago

        Cool. Pay my rent for me so I can, cause homelessness is illegal now.

        You’re proving MY point. Nuance and not jumping to the simplest conclusions is a severe problem we have in this country. You hear something you disagree with and immediately rack it up to "this person is bad because of (insert confirmation bias here)

        You have zero clue the situation others are in. Take a seat.

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            2 days ago

            There are literally two of us that work at my kitchen. We’re both needed.

            It’s more than money. I’d need an extra set of hands to cover me, a set that’s trained on our menu and able to feed over 1200 people, as I don’t work a line, I work banquets, parties and wedding ect

            Nuance. I keep pleasing for it. Not everyone can be at every protest.

            So yes, as I said, it kills me to not be there, but like many people, I’m literally not in a position to

            • JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world
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              Your workplace has 2 weeks to find someone to cover that shift. Tell them to look into a contracting agency and grab a person for a day. What’s your cashapp?

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                Two weeks isn’t enough time to train someone to handle over 1200 people and our menu. I do not work a conventional kitchen, as I already said.

                Stop acting like it’s a simple solution just because you think you can throw money at me. You’re just compounding how shitty I already feel about being in a situation I cannot control.

                Back off. I make it to meetings and protests when I can and have stated multiple times I can’t this time, and you are being completely obstuse about it.

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                  Pay my rent for me so I can.

                  Here’s rent money, let’s do this

                  No no no, there’s these other reasons too

                  Moving the goalposts makes it seem like you never wanted to go in the first place. Or maybe you’ve been beaten down by the system so much that you think this one day at your job is more important than the government being dismantled?

                  • Dadd Volante
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                    13 hours ago

                    No, you’re just being an absolute asshole about this. And I’m blocking you to avoid further harassment.

                    My kids keep a roof over their heads. Get fucked.

                  • frostysauce@lemmy.world
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                    That one person screwing over their coworkers by attending this one protest isn’t going to be the tipping point that saves America. Gain some perspective and have some empathy.

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                  I’m not American and don’t really understand your system. What I would like to say is, being in a situation where you can’t get a day off or be sick (because thats the same problem) is not healthy. I hope you find a job where you can actually take a personal day once in a while.

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                    If you don’t understand our system you shouldn’t be telling me what to do about it.

                    I can get days off. I have plenty during slow season. I have sick days. You need to stop acting like you know more about my situation than you do.

                    I cannot reschedule this day. There’s too many people and it’s too short of notice

                    I’m proud of my job and the work I’ve put into it. I love it.

                    Back. Off.

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            3 days ago

            On Lemmy with apparently no idea what it’s like to pay rent and bills.

            Go you!

            • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              You have zero clue the situation others are in.

              On Lemmy with apparently no idea what it’s like to pay rent and bills.

              Don’t be a hypocrite.

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                2 days ago

                One is a actual fact, the other a sarcastic jab.

                Your response is an attempt to act like they’re both the same.

                You just want to fight to cope with being incorrect, like a typical American. You’re not getting it from me. Search elsewhere.