• dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    It’s really crazy. WIth women it takes a lot longer to get to the point of sexual intimacy. Guys I meet up and have sex with are shocked when I tell them what I go through with women. Maybe I’m just not finding the right women? lol

    • iheartneopets@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      Lots of women are very dtf, but try to be cognizant of the fact that for us it’s also a safety issue. Better to spend a little bit of extra time getting to know someone before just cruising to a stranger’s house for cock worship. That kind of scenario can turn dangerous fast if you’re not careful. Cheers.

        • Ahornygirl@lemmynsfw.com
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          1 year ago

          It really is always something we’re thinking about. Once when I was really young and naive, I was dumb enough to let a date drive me home. He went past the turn off for my house and didn’t say anything. I absolutely freaked out inside, convinced I was going to have something terrible happen to me. I hadn’t let anyone know where I was, or who I was with. I would have no chance of fighting back either, I’m not strong enough to fight off a guy who outweighs me by 50 lbs.

          Fortunately he was just really fucked up in a different way. He felt the need to introduce me to his parents… he didn’t feel the need to give me a heads up about that though.

          Ever since that day I always drive myself (or take a cab) and no one knows personal info like my phone number or address until I completely trust them.

          • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com
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            1 year ago

            Yeah that’s terrifying. If I were ever to go with anyone on a date by car, even as a guy, I wouldn’t get in their car, either!