• AlecSadler@lemmy.tfEnglish
    36·
    10 months ago

    I had a girlfriend once (briefly) who legit got mad at me for crying. Like, “stop that fucking shit” and walked out of the room mad.

    She also believed that a guy resting their head on the girl’s shoulder or lap or whatever made them look weak.

    Anyway, she’s gone and, last I knew, absolutely miserable.

    My wife? Amazing and completely the opposite of the above. I don’t know wtf I was thinking before.

    • PsychedSy
      312·
      10 months ago

      My nephew blames others when he has emotions. I’ll prolly end up killing him.

        • PsychedSy
          1·
          10 months ago

          He’s got some serious issues with blaming other people for him having emotions.

          Edit: doesn’t even need a gal to blame him.

        • PsychedSy
          11·
          10 months ago

          Blaming others for your actions. It’s gaslighting.

          • GladiusB@lemmy.world
            11·
            10 months ago

            But what does that have anything to do with the guy’s ex GF or current wife? Or anything to do with one being negligent and the other being supportive?

            • PsychedSy
              11·
              10 months ago

              It has to do with reinforcing the idea that men should bo ashamed for crying. Bad news bears my dude.