Especially when we enjoy not having sexual equality, this can often happen in combination with humiliation or pain. Sex that only pleases him at times, but she endures it more for his love, can be a facet of it. As a top, this is a particularly appealing situation for me because she takes the trouble to do it for me. I’m curious how the community thinks of this. Pleasurable moment or shame? ;-) source

    • Patriarch 🍆😈@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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      It’s a pitty. The problem is the image quality. It is a repost from another side but the side wont be displayed as a picture. So I have to upload the pic again on lensdump to create a preview. The preview is not in a good quality since the source is already not the best. But if you check out source, you see the better quality.

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        The worst thing for me is that you dont see the glithes before you see the result on lemmy, since the quality is well displayed on lensdump as well. I think the bad quality of the picture and the effort of lemmy developer to maximize the speed on the page, make this result. Hope you can enjoy it despite it

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    I’m fantasizing about something like this quiet regularly. In everyday life and my relationship, I’m not a person exercising power over others very often. I’m more looking to be on par with my peers/partner and maybe am subordinating myself a little bit. Arising from that, fantasies that contain being the dominant person could be a counterweight. Sometimes I want to be the one that is to be pleased no matter what.