Why YSK: Interviewers like to weed out people who have gaps in their employment
history for myriad nonsensical reasons. If you remember that this is all just a
game to the employer, you can play to win. ------------ Fill the gaps with a
story about a failed foray into entrepreneurship in a related field. I had a
massive gap and this worked gangbusters after six months of constant rejection.
The gap was caused by my mother’s health rapidly deteriorating, and my sense of
responsibility to care for her - which became a full time job until she passed.
After that, I went through the dehumanizing experience of dozens of interviews
where I was asked about the gap. Describing why I took the time out of the
workforce was hard enough - adding insult to injury was the homogenous reactions
among all interviewers. You could watch them mentally write me off in real time,
and then go through the motions before sending me off to wait for a “the
organization has interviewed several great candidates” email. It occurred to me
that instead of baring my pain for callous interviewers, what they’d rather hear
about was a “go-getter” whose spirit has been broken enough to come crawling
back to the rat race. So I concocted a story about a failed attempt at being an
entrepreneur in their industry. Lo, and behold - After I stopped telling the
truth and started telling people about Vandelay Industries mighty struggle to
remain solvent due to market forces, I found myself with three offers in the
same number of weeks. The difference in interviewers whole demeanor between
“took care of dying mother,” and “had to see if I could get Vandelay Industries
off the ground while I was young enough to be able to recover from a failure”
was night and day. Read about failed startups. Rehearse. Everybody lies in the
corpo-world. Lie better.
Sesuai judul. Nggak perlu jujur amat sama HRD. Those mf are not your friend. Ada gap di CV? Ngarang indah aja. Everybody lies in the corporate world.
While I personally disagree with this (doing this really left a bad taste), but I understand and totally not judging people that did this, especially one with situation like OP (as long as they can also back it up, as in actually trying to deliver). It’s unfortunate that this is how the interviewing/hiring process works these days, but it is what it is.