Your life, physical and then professional were both threatened. The things you mentioned aren’t little oopsies. These are well beyond normal. You describe being assaulted and abused. Those aren’t suck it up and learn situations. That isn’t a regular kind of problem. You should seek trauma counseling.
If Taylor Swift was working for the pentagon the recruitment troubles would be over. I’m glad she is getting people to sign up to vote. I would think that there are swifties from all political sides.