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Cake day: August 15th, 2023

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  • I’ve been enjoying it. I’d recommend a try, but not for the full sticker price. I’m pretty sure there’s a free demo available.

    A simple start-to-finish (any%) run is super duper easy, but some of the mechanics are pretty fun and the cinematic element makes me smile a lot. But you could prolly get a good feel for the latter just watching videos of playthroughs.

    However… A 100% run can be VERY frustrating. The cute cinematics are mostly unskippable – you can’t even button-mash to speed up the dialog. Also, the stages don’t really allow for backtracking. So if you miss something, you have to start all the way back at the beginning. I got stuck on one stage and put off playing for weeks cuz it was so annoying. “Welcome to the Spooky Party”, grrr…

    Once I got past that though, it got fun again (and inspired this post hehe). The post-game challenges have been pretty neat so far.

    7/10 new, 8/10 used, 9/10 borrowed from a friend for a weekend









  • When referring to a difficult task: “That’s a tough road to hold”, or “a tough road to hoe”, or “a tough road to [travel on]” or “a tough road to… [trails off awkwardly…]”, or just “a tough road”.

    It’s a tough row to hoe.

    It’s an agricultural metaphor. The row is a line of dirt in a field where you plant seeds. You use a hoe to dig the lines, remove weeds, and create little holes where you drop the seeds. Hoeing may be difficult if the soil is too hard or too full of rocks and weeds. Such a row would be a tough one to hoe.



  • To me, this says that your workplace has acknowledged and accepted that the way they do business is leading to burnout, at least for some people. But rather than using that as evidence that their business practices need to change, they’ve instead opted to individualize the problem. Our growth projections aren’t unreasonably ambitious, you just need to do more deep breathing.

    It’s like how I’m told to take a vacation to relax, only to return to the same (or an even larger) pile of to-dos that I left behind.

    Edit: If this resonates with you, check out the book “McMindfulness” by Ronald Purser.




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    Me, looking for technical writing jobs after writing a highly fucking technical dissertation: I have a PhD but I’m pretty burned out on being a try-hard so I’m just looking for a straightforward 9-to-5.

    Them: We’re worried you’ll be bored.

    Me: Anyone would get bored doing this, at least I’ll be good at it.

    Them: No.




  • That’s fair. I won’t dispute that sometimes they’re helpful. If I spend more time typing the message than it’d take to just talk it out, then meeting up is a viable option.

    But gosh, the number of meetings I’ve had where I send the email, we meet anyway, and I simply read the email to them and they go “Ohhhh”… Sigh.


  • I find it interesting that “attend meetings” is said in the same breath as “walk around” and “take lunch or bathroom breaks”.

    Meetings are way worse for productivity than breaks and water cooler bullshitting, at least in my experience. There’s more of them, they take longer, and they tend to leave me with a vague sense that nothing’s really getting done and everybody’s sort of okay with that. AND they’re treated as an obligation in a way that taking breaks is not.

    At least when I get back to my desk after walking around, I feel a bit more refreshed and ready to get back to work. In fact, it’s usually meeting burnout that prompts the walk-around in the first place.



  • Wow, I’m sorry to hear you had such a bad experience, but I’m glad you found some relief. I’m really hoping it’s not the HRT for me – I’ve had enough progress with that and laser hair removal that I’m finally smiling back at my reflection instead of cringing at it.

    But then, I also hope it’s not some more complicated gastrointestinal issue. I had some problems like that years and years ago, and it was a long and painful road to get it all fixed.

    lol i don’t know what i’m “hoping” it is, actually. food poisoning? i’ll ask my docs to take another look at things.

    I’d be going to my primary care doc

    well look at you, having an actual primary care doc