• @FrostyTrichsOPM
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    13 months ago

    My circle is very small but includes a few people that are far more social than I am. What usually happens is I’m visiting a friend and someone they know calls up or stops by, next thing you know there’s half a dozen people I’ve never met standing around. Small private sessions are definitely more normal for my friends and I though.

    • Transporter Room 3
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      43 months ago

      Ugh I would absolutely hate having people I didn’t invite show up.

      Literally unless it’s cleared with me BEFORE the invitation is extended, I absolutely will refuse to let someone in.

      I get you’re tight with them but I dont/barely know them.

      Lucky for me my circle is also introverted so no random invites, just random people popping in completely unannounced which usually get the quick 5 minute “hey how’s it going what’s up k bye” patio conversation.

      I’m perfectly content with smoking at home with just my wife and dogs. Extra people just make things louder. Pass.

      • @FrostyTrichsOPM
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        33 months ago

        Ugh I would absolutely hate having people I didn’t invite show up.

        Well when it isn’t my place I’m not going to tell somebody who can come over lol

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          33 months ago

          Lmao fair point, I’ll just invite people to my place so I can kick people out when I want I guess.

          When(if lol) I’ve got the land for it, want to make a small cabin in a cluster of trees that’s basically just enough room for 4 people to sit in and have a wood stove in the corner.