• kandoh@reddthat.com
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    6 months ago

    Would you say the same thing to a black person who just opened up about racism they’ve experienced?

    You’re attempting to gaslight every circumcised male into believing it’s all in our heads.

    • deaf_fish@lemm.ee
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      6 months ago

      My dude, I’m circumcised.

      I don’t get out much, is this a thing that happens a lot? I guess I don’t openly declare I’m circumcised to my social group. So there’s no way that they would know. But if they did would they make that a big deal? I have a hard time imagining that they would even care.

      Are you sure this is a societal problem and not a friend group problem?

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        6 months ago

        The other day I saw my grocery store advertising that they were ‘slashing prices on sausages’. You’re telling me that’s not intentional?

        Just a coincidence I’m sure 😒

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          6 months ago

          I think it comes down to whether or not there is negative stigma with being circumcised.

          We all have to set our own bar on this one, from my perspective, I don’t see that society really cares if a person is cut or uncut.

          I would say that if this is causing problems for your life, then you should consider seeking therapy. Even if it turns out that society is gunning for you, getting help can make it easier to live in that society.

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      6 months ago

      Do people know you’re circumcised based on your skin colour? Seems like a facetious comparison