Pro-tip: Asking permission to interrupt to say your bit goes down much much better than just interjecting

  • @[email protected]
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    3022 days ago

    I see this advice often, and in most cases it’s true. But most people with these issues are young and have lots of time to turn things around. I’m 40 and had my chances and blew all of them.

    • db0OPM
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      22 days ago

      I immigrated for the second time in my late 30s and lost all my friend circle all over again and then found new ones. There’s a lot of people in the world so no reason to stop looking.

    • Rosoe
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      2322 days ago

      Always time to change, even if you only get a few years to enjoy it. I respect the dejectedness though.

    • @[email protected]
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      1522 days ago

      Dude I’m almost 42 and have had this mentality for most of my life, but am still making new friends. Defeatism is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Don’t mistake that for it being correct initially.