• WastingCommentSpace
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    1 month ago

    (is it possible i just dont understand social stuff at all? I still dont get it. Maybe im just this damaged.)

    • grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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      1 month ago

      Social stuff is hard for many people. I’d wager most people are not even consciously aware of social status, social transactions, etc. It’s not something that is really taught, so it’s no surprise when someone is blind to it.

      But if you ever feel bad because of what someone said or did, it’s possible you’re subconsciously reacting to a threat to your status (import and safety within a group).

      Why do you say you’re damaged?