jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.
Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.
Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808
These people, of all people, should understand the difference between the software and an instance.
The main dev behind Lemmy is absolutely a problem.
That guy’s server is a broken stair.
Lemmy itself is fine.