I think you’re acting like that’s a way bigger deal than it is. That’s one person and it’s really unfair to treat all trans people poorly because you heard a story about one person that did some deplorable shit somewhere.

Is accepting someone that claimed they transitioned to “have a better chance of getting a girlfriend” and that raped their own grandmother really something you’re willing to do?

yes. I don’t discriminate peoples gender based on actions, I judge them as a person based on their actions.