My child just started kindergarten. As far as I can tell, it’s wonderful and is the best place for him.
We’re just… people of means. We’ve saved a lot of money compared to the private schools we were considering.
I just don’t want this to be inappropriate. We’ll give to all the standard pta / school fundraisers and already do the wishlist and extra school supplies requests.
I’m still selfish. I do want plenty of it to benefit my child. Appropriately though.
I just also want to make sure that the (kindergarten) teachers can get pizza and beer or whatever without it seeming like bribery.
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Maybe ask the parent council? They’re typically tasked with fundraising, so that would be a logical place to start.
The PTA and standard fundraisers are already addressed in the post.
I’m not suggesting going in on the fundraisers, I’m suggesting asking the PTA if you can make an anonymous donation.