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    It’s like the “have you tried restarting your computer” of dating. It’s the most basic possible piece of advice. To that end, most people have heard it tons of times, especially if they’re in the market for dating advice. It’s not bad advice, just not anything special.

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        2 years ago

        No, but there’s absolutely good advice to be had.

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          2 years ago

          Sure on individual level but without knowing the person there is not much general advice to be given. It will always be general things like don’t be ugly or shy.

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            I agree there’s no perfect universal advice, but that doesn’t mean advice shouldn’t be given, just that it should be more tailored.

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              Like I said, to give a tailored advice you actually need to know the person pretty well, to understand where exactly they fuck up.