This is not a question. No one is going to say that it’s okay. The answer to that question would be “no” in my experience. It’s not that you are automatically against sex. But if your girlfriend has to do it, then it’s okay. If her boyfriend doesn’t want sex in the first place, then it’s okay. But, if she refuses sex and believes that sex is wrong, then it’s okay. Also, if you’re worried the teen may be interested in sex, that’s fine too.