• JokeDeity@lemm.ee
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    11 months ago

    What sexuality am I if I love everything about women and feminine looks, but also like a big fat cock, yet dislike literally every single other thing about men and masculinity? Legitimately asking.

    • A Phlaming Phoenix@lemm.ee
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      11 months ago

      I don’t know, and it’s not for me to say. Sexuality is a fluid spectrum, and I’m reluctant about labels in the first place. I’m especially reluctant to label an Internet stranger for them. You are what you say you are. Sounds like somewhere in the bi/pan/omni range.

        • JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee
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          11 months ago

          I know. Also top surgery. I don’t think surgery should be forced on anyone who doesn’t want it. If they do want it it’s a different matter of course

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          You’re not alone, I’m the same way, albeit a bit more open to somewhat masculine traits (my attraction extends to twinks or sufficiently effeminate men). This made it hard to understand if I was bi or something else, but eventually I concluded that the words we choose to use are inherently imprecise because we create them to represent definite categories that only approximate reality.

          My attraction to all women, some men, and trans women w/o bottom surgery I guess makes me approximately bi.

    • Meowoem
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      11 months ago

      You’re on the majority on Grindr if that helps