• A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    they arent choosing it.

    They are being forced into it because its the only fucking way to have a chance at NOT being homeless and crippled.

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      11 months ago

      Oh no, make no mistake, I chose it.

      However, even if I wanted them, how the fuck does one even afford them?

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      11 months ago

      Don’t get it twisted, many of us absolutely chose to not have kids because we don’t want them.

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        11 months ago

        You can both be right, you know. Many of us also agree with what this person was saying.

        I used to want kids. I will refuse to have kids unless I can afford them, and until I can GUARANTEE that their human rights won’t be stripped away by the whims of stupid people who are completely disconnected from reality. I won’t bring a new life into a world that’s rushing towards climate oblivion, either.

        I’ll sterilize myself before I’m ever forced to have kids.

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          11 months ago

          And there is part of the problem in the eyes of those with power… That thought that you have a choice in sterility. A choice to not have kids didn’t used to exist and you attempting to keep warm and have some pleasure basically guaranteed that you would have more eventually. So that must be stripped in order for you to continue the cycle of having kids not by choice and add to the population that gets fucked over.

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          11 months ago

          OP: everyone in group x does y

          Me: not everyone

          You: you’re both right - not everyone

          ?

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        11 months ago

        Agreed. These people are trying to leverage something many of us absolutely aren’t interested in to push for necessities such as fixing inflation, universal Healthcare etc. Except that if those things were fixed it wouldn’t change the birth rate much at all. That’s why Republicans are forcing people to be breeding machines. Educated well off people know better to engage in an activity that is detrimental to their physical and mental health. And making a human means you’re responsible for them until you or they die. That’s the biggest mistake people make. They make a human, then wash their hands of then.