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      11 months ago

      They could be calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend I suppose. Sometimes even small kids do that

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        11 months ago

        Which is still very much learned behavior, often the result of an uncle pestering “So little Jimmy, got a girlfriend yet?”

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          My daughter has had crushes since kindergarten and absolutely no one has asked her if she “has a boyfriend yet”

          Kids develop crushes. You don’t need to make it weird.

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            Yes, your daughter has had the quintessential American child experience which is most likely going to underscored by taking place in a western-flavored cis heterosexual context. What I’m saying is that it’s all relative. Your daughter’s relationship experience will be different than an ancient Egyptian, or a Native American, or a Viking. There is nothing “natural” about the way we currently partake in relationships as Americans. And my point is that it is weird to assert “My child is so in love!” Let them express things on their own. Give them that freedom.

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              Yes, your daughter has had the quintessential American child experience which is most likely going to underscored by taking place in a western-flavored cis heterosexual context

              Man if you knew me IRL you’d find this fucking hilarious.

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          11 months ago

          Almost everything we do is learned behaviour. Could be as simple as hearing adults talk about it to each other or calling people someone’s girlfriend or boyfriend.

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      11 months ago

      Calm down, I don’t think they’ll be needing “the talk” any time soon, it’s just an internet post for fun.