• haui@lemmy.giftedmc.com
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    11 months ago

    Pretty sure you‘re only using the r-bomb and „mental issues“ in a joking way but its kind of not funny.

    Musk is a spoiled, unempathetic, overhyped idiot who claims to be autistic… perfect example that autistic people can be cretins as well.

    But a lot of autistic people are getting called the r-word and its not ok. Mental (health) issues are not a stigma. They are okay and normal. Being an asshole isnt normal or okay though.

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      11 months ago

      By definition you can’t be normal if you’re neurodivergent…

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        11 months ago

        By the “divergent” part of the word, you’re right.

        It would be like saying “it’s normal to be abnormal”. While it’s true that not everybody is identical, and everyone has their quirks, by defintion “abnormal” is not “normal”.

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          11 months ago

          From the very source you provided:

          […] by Late Latin normālis had also come to mean “according to a rule”, from which modern English senses of the word derive: in the 1800s, as people began to quantitatively study things like height and weight and blood pressure, the usual or most common values came to be referred to as “normal”, and by extension values regarded as healthy or desirable came to be called “normal” regardless of their usuality.

          I don’t think anyone of sane mind would argue against the notion that it’s more desirable, and by definition healthier, to be born neurotypical than neurodivergent.

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            11 months ago

            just exchange the word neurodivergent with black or jewish and neurotypical with white or christian and you see the problem.

            Provided you are “sane”.

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              11 months ago

              “Just completely change your argument and it becomes problematic” is hardly convincing. In fact, you’ve committed a classic logical fallacy.

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        11 months ago

        A little disturbing, ngl. Some might have grown up in a time or place where getting bullied and mistreated was no bid deal. Its actually good to see these things changing.