• CaptainEffort
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    1 year ago

    I don’t judge the age difference as long as they’re both adults. What two consenting adults do is up to them, it’s none of my business.

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      It depends on the relative power imbalance at this point. If a 20 year old is out at bars going home with 50 year old dudes, then slay queen. If it’s 20 year old secretary with 50 year old boss, then there’s a much higher chance that the situation is fucked, though still not 100% I suppose.

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        I’m always conflicted on the sugar daddy scenario. I mean if a woman is attractive and wants to leverage that into a relationship that makes her financially comfortable, who am I to say no?

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      Oh, I judge, particularly the older person, but not in some moralistic way. But in a “if at 50 you can have a romantic or sexual relationship, even temporarily, with an 18-year-old, I have some unflattering views of you.”

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      1 year ago

      Hey is that Oyasumi Punpun?

      I couldn’t remember the name and I am amused that the search string “sad bird manga” worked.

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        Lol I’m not even surprised, I mean that’s basically what it is