• DrCatface@lemmy.worldEnglish
      25·
      11 months ago

      oh is this why i nearly murdered that guy for dropping his cigarette butts down the drain

    • shneancy@lemmy.worldEnglish
      222·
      11 months ago

      haha that is the main reason why I’m choosing to live in ignorance about what’s happening in the news, I can’t handle so much of it. It makes my blood boil. The important things get to me through memes anyway

    • JaxEnglish
      2·
      11 months ago

      Don’t really need ADHD for that

    • achance4cheeseEnglish
      24·
      11 months ago

      Wednesday forever and this whole grocery store hated me kind of covers that, but yeah, dread is especially apparent with phone calls and late afternoon appointments.

    • Shyfer@ttrpg.networkEnglish
      16·
      11 months ago

      I’m currently the one being cut off from someone and I feel like shit… I double-booked a thing and now they think I suck and am not reliable. And it’s probably true. I’m so bad at dates and remembering to write things down, but I want to change. This is probably the push I need to remember forever now, but don’t want to lose my friend group over it. Fuck, I hate myself so much.

      Oh hey, that whole type of rant is on the list,too lol.

      • experbia@lemmy.worldEnglish
        14·
        11 months ago

        Hey man,

        you’re probably fine. I don’t know the details, but humans are fallible. you’re only human. friends should know this, they’re only human too. I doubt these friends have all been perfect all the time, and I doubt they’ll do everything perfect from here on out.

        If it caused a problem, tell them the truth. you double booked. you had to pick one over the other. you feel bad you flaked. you don’t intend to make it a habit.

        if it cost people something, consider making it up somehow. but I would propose that unless it’s cost them real bad, good friends ought to accept the apology without expecting the compensation. they’ll mess up someday too, and it’s better for everyone to be kind.

        don’t hate yourself. it does no good for anyone. counterproductive and undeserved. develop a system to help you. you can’t always change your nature, but you can build around it.

          • Tedrick02@lemmy.todayEnglish
            3·
            11 months ago

            I know it’s hard to get in the habit, but take out your phone when making any plans or appointments, get the calendar app out and add it as it happens. Don’t wait even 1 minute. Feel free to tell the person you’re adding it to the calendar as you do it if you feel like you’re being rude. I set reminder notifications for all appointments based on how much notice I would need if I completely forgot about it.

      • stoly@lemmy.worldEnglish
        3·
        11 months ago

        Remember that emotional dysregulation is a very common thing among the general population and many cannot separate that they are frustrated with a situation and being frustrated with you. You don’t really want to be around people capable of such heavy levels of judgement or an unwillingness to be charitable in their interpretations of others.

    • stoly@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      11 months ago

      Yeah pretty much I spent years being traumatized by idiots before I realized that most people are stupid and not worth your time. Once I understood that, life became so much better. I am now of the opinion that few people are worth the drama they bring to your lives, and your real goal is to find those few who are worth it.

  • AlexJD@feddit.ukEnglish
    13·
    11 months ago

    I’m currently on anger and it’s all about to come crashing down

    • general_kitten@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      19·
      11 months ago

      My guess is its the exhaustion of having survived the start of the week combined with the dread of having to survive that long again

    • stoly@lemmy.worldEnglish
      7·
      11 months ago

      The cycle never ends. There’s never a downtime, just more “do-do-do”. The moment you finish something, it’s already time to start it again.

    • PorkRoll@lemmy.worldEnglish
      16·
      11 months ago

      If I remember correctly, hypersexuality is often a symptom of ADHD because the sweet release of dopamine that comes with sex and sex related activities often helps ease the other symptoms of ADHD.

        • TimewornTraveler@lemm.eeEnglish
          142·
          11 months ago

          stalking someone’s posts seems more like harassment than anything else. try blocking

          do you even know who you’re replying to? I have zero interest in whatever petty bullshit yall bringing from another community. I just thought they needed a reminder to log off once in a while, if this is how you’re spending your time. same to you, Mixter Step-In

      • Stamets@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
        232·
        11 months ago

        Literally no.

        That user is otherwise known as DroneRights. You can check modlogs and see that they’ve had accounts on every major instance and every account has been banned for transphobia, general bigotry, slander, and copious amounts of lying. They particularly hate me because I am both a popular poster as well as someone who specifically called out their shit and got them banned from Startrek.website. They openly admit that they have narcissistic personality disorder and are using that to both abuse other people as well as shield themselves from abuse. They are literally incapable of coping with the fact that someone has pointed out that they are a trash person and has made it their sole mission to try and slander me at every possible case.

        I banned them from 3 communities earlier today for making these exact same claims about me and providing zero evidence but these comments still exist elsewhere.

        Honestly I just keep forgetting they exist. I think they’re drastically overselling how important they think they are. Only reason I’m even aware of their existence is because they just keep copy/pasting the same argument over and over again. Literally not creative enough to come up with anything new.

        • MetaCubed@lemmy.worldEnglish
          211·
          11 months ago

          “Narcissist is a slur!” -cried the Narcissist

          I’ve done the digging I need to to confirm to my satisfaction that you’ve at least 3 alts, all of which defend you, use it/its pronouns, and all of which claim to be the originating victim.

          Stop lying, log off

        • 𝙲𝚑𝚊𝚒𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚗 𝙼𝚎𝚘𝚠@programming.devEnglish
          222·
          11 months ago

          “Narcissist” is not a slur. Additionally, he’s calling you out for your bad behaviour and online harassment, not “because you have NPD”.

          If you have a mental disorder that prevents you from behaving nicely online, it may be wiser not to comment. Because people won’t see your NPD as an excuse, but as a justification showing that you do demonstrate bad behaviour and therefore are prone to breaking the (social) rules. Ergo justifying the ban.