I sympathize… I was going through a divorce myself, but stayed in the marriage for the child’s sake. Still, it was a nasty divorce as well, all sorts of shitty moves on her side, plus some nasty plans I later found out about (when we got back together).
I sincerly hope you get custody of your children. Women are usually given custody of the children by default, but I’ve seen so many examples of just bad parrenting by women (including my own) that I think that this practice should end. Women may give birth to children, but that doesn not automatically make them the better parrent. This may have been true 30, 40 years ago, but in today’s day and age, no way. Equal rights and an even playing field everywhere, including custody battles.
I sympathize… I was going through a divorce myself, but stayed in the marriage for the child’s sake. Still, it was a nasty divorce as well, all sorts of shitty moves on her side, plus some nasty plans I later found out about (when we got back together).
I sincerly hope you get custody of your children. Women are usually given custody of the children by default, but I’ve seen so many examples of just bad parrenting by women (including my own) that I think that this practice should end. Women may give birth to children, but that doesn not automatically make them the better parrent. This may have been true 30, 40 years ago, but in today’s day and age, no way. Equal rights and an even playing field everywhere, including custody battles.