The video above is a collaboration between Aba and Preach who mostly do reaction videos to cultural issues and Shan Boody who delves into discussions about relationships and sex. The video above focuses on the weird double bind men are forced into by the wider culture and people in their lives with zero concern or forethought into how being more vulnerable affects the men themselves. I’d be interested to hear people’s takeaways or disagreements with the points made in the video as there’s interviews with both men and women on the topic of men expressing vulnerabilities.
Extreme analogies are often used in order to wake people up to the conversation they’re having (or just for fun)
She put attacker into the literal sense which people could hopefully compare to regular situations of ‘person who deals harm vs person who receives harm’