Outside of the disc golf scene, I’m in a pretty left-leaning area, but the thought of going out to play a round alone in girl mode scares the shit out of me. Ironically, playing disc golf alone was one of the things that helped me sort out my thoughts and accept my gender id, but even in boy mode I just get this overwhelming anxiety now. Particularly when locals/other golfers approach me on the course— the culture reminds me a lot of skate culture, but with older people and more bro-y misogynist talk (constantly talking about how much they love pussy and want to fuck).
I don’t even give a shit about tournaments (fuck the PGDA though) I just want to throw discs. I don’t really know if my fear is justified, but the tenor of the conversation around trans athletes online makes me feel super unsafe.
Again, I would love to do that, but disc golf courses feel genuinely unsafe. Sure it’s “their problem” but I do not give a fuck if it’s their problem or mine if I’m dead or beaten.
I think you should maybe check local Facebook groups or something to test the waters then. I’d say that you’re being a little irrationally concerned about your safety in regards to just throwing some discs in the park, but I have no idea what your local population is like either.
Every disc golfer I’ve ever met is pretty accepting. For the most part they’re just guys and gals hanging out at the park to throw discs while they’re high on an edible or something similar.