I’ve heard of things like iPostal and Traveling Mailbox. Do these services allow you to register with bank, DMV, IRS, Voting, etc? How do they work? Would a normal P.O box using its physical address from USPS work? I’ve tried researching it and haven’t gotten clear answers.
I don’t want to show up on those whitepages sites with all my information on them. I want to stop it from the start.
That’s entirely reasonable and I totally agree with you, however banks are pretty tightly regulated and can’t give away or sell customer information. Much higher likelihood it’s an app on your phone that’s been harvesting your data to a broker, or your data was aggragated from a breach and sold.