Sometimes I feel anxious talking to people and telling them about my interests in life. Thinking deep down inside my head that most people will be annoyed by what I had to say and just shun me. Especially when it’s a jump from one topic to another that has nothing to do with the previous. I was always told to give to a conversation before I take, however, that’s social anxiety always kicks in. Does anybody else have similar experiences?
First off, when someone judges or shuns you for your interests, that says more about them than it does about you. It took me a long time to really internalize that, and it wasn’t easy. Also, it’s a good indicator for people you want to keep around.
I’ve taken the approach of “thank you for letting me know we’re not compatible, so bye Felicia.” (I say this to myself, not out loud)
Read up on Ugol’s Law. There’s a >50% chance that many other people share some of your interests.