• cendawanita@monyet.cc
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    If you’re going to do another alt insta, might as well try another fediverse analogue and get a Pixelfed. At least it’s not Facebook who’s going to add your new alt and its new alternate email to their profile of you, that will just kantoikan you eventually.

    ETA: if you don’t want to move, stop posting on main and just use stories and only post to your close friends filter. Or soft block ur mum so she unfollows you

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      Additional info on Pixelfed - upcoming features is tiered access to your posts; so a bit like fb flist, so if she ever finds u again, you can have real public posts and posts she’ll never see

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        I would’ve recommended my instance which is metapixl.com but I’m also shopping around as I’m not sure if I want to stay there, but it’s decent enough (having issues with the alt-text character limit but otherwise it’s fine). The flagship is pixelfed.social which is huge now but they do get first round of stable releases, but regardless there’s a list here https://pixelfed.fediverse.observer/list - filter by signups to yes. Most of them are general instances so other than the non-english one I don’t think there’s a problem to pick. ETA: oh wait! Check their abouts, some of them allow nsfw content (which shouldn’t be a problem until u check local feed)

        ETA: I would recommend metapixl.com regardless because they offer the cushiest amount (max 20 pix; caption length is max 2k characters; most others will put about 5 pix with max caption of 500 chars)