• WaxedWookie@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      If they were black, it would similarly be a black love story - but what do you think choosing to describe it as a black love story indicates?

      There’s a million different lenses to look through when describing a story or a relationship - the aspects we choose to point to (particularly unprompted, as was the case for the trolls) tend to indicate more about us than the story - particularly when they have no meaningful bearing on the story.

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        10 months ago

        It indicates that it is a love story between two black people. You drawing attention to it as if saying “black” is some forbidden, taboo word / description is the problem.

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          Saying they’re black or gay when it has no bearing on the story doesn’t tell anyone much. You didn’t choose to say they were loving, outdoorsy, not super-physical, middle-aged, wealthy, blonde, family-oriented… Noone is coming out to crucify me here - talking about race isn’t taboo - but the non-relevant aspects of the relationship you choose to highlight for reasons tells plenty about you.

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      By who? Unless you’re clicking tags on netflix I don’t think anyone is going to have this hypothetical convo:

      Oh there’s a great episode you should watch

      Oh whats it about? Tell me more?

      Its gay

      Oh ok thanks, all I need to know.

      The quote is about them calling it a “gay story” not a “post apocalyptic gay love story”. The reductive 2 word description is rightfully annoying to a man who brought a well written and fleshed out love story to life, only to be told he made a “gay story”

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        10 months ago

        By literally the OP above? They were specifically asked how would they clarify and they responded as a “gay love story”.

        Buddy, you can be angry about whatever you want, but it is not “irrellevant to the plot” that there is a relationship between two people in the series. It is not irrellevant that it is between two men or two women. They can desribe it any way they want to, and it is not reductive to call it a “gay love story”.