And I really don’t get the point of these strong emotions that it’s sometimes environmental causes, like drinking or drugs somehow makes it not directly the fault of the mother. At least genetics isn’t something we control.

I never talked about drink or drugs. Are you dumb or a troll or something? Environmental toxin means pollution, and things like lead pipes that are still used all over the world. You’re exposed to mutagenic agents everyday. Even without them random mutations happen anyway, like literally all the time. It’s the same reason why cancer is inevitable in all animals (and similar diseases in other multicellular life). None of that is the fault of the mother.

People are fucking weird and not in the interesting way where they are expressing a uniqueness.

Conformists need their placated reality. 🤷

I actually don’t understand what you are talking about now. What does this have to do with anything we have discussed? Please explain.