Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agoWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?message-squaremessage-square175fedilinkarrow-up1252arrow-down112
arrow-up1240arrow-down1message-squareWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agomessage-square175fedilink
minus-squareCarlos Solís@communities.azkware.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up46arrow-down1·1 year agoUnrequested advice. Sometimes it is warranted after all.
minus-squareAggressivelyPassive@feddit.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up22·1 year agoAnd some people genuinely want to help, without implying the other person is stupid, weak, incompetent either.
minus-squareSerpardum@lemmyonline.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9arrow-down2·1 year agoUnrequested advice is always taken for criticism. Don’t do it. Ask first. “May I give you fome advice?”
minus-squarerichieadler@lemmy.myserv.onelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down2·1 year agoAnd if they say “no”, listen.
minus-squareSapphicFemme@lib.lgbtlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 year agoVery rare in ny experience :(
minus-squareSapphicFemme@lib.lgbtlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 year agoIt’s worse after you vent to someone and they give you it. Especially when it was unwanted.
Unrequested advice. Sometimes it is warranted after all.
And some people genuinely want to help, without implying the other person is stupid, weak, incompetent either.
Unrequested advice is always taken for criticism. Don’t do it. Ask first. “May I give you fome advice?”
And if they say “no”, listen.
Very rare in ny experience :(
It’s worse after you vent to someone and they give you it. Especially when it was unwanted.