• pearable@lemmy.ml
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    8 months ago

    As a man who has had sex, it’s not as good as connection, understanding, and social belonging. Granted, that’s just me. Maybe other men do in fact need to fuck somebody to feel like a worthwhile person.

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      8 months ago

      Granted, that’s just me. Maybe other men do in fact need to fuck somebody to feel like a worthwhile person.

      Correct. And I’m saying that’s not a defect. That’s just an aspect of personality, and it’s as valid as any other.

      Anyone who says you’re less of a man for not wanting to fuck a different girl every night is an idiot and an asshole. But conversely, anyone who says I’m toxic for wanting to fuck a different girl every night is also an asshole.