• ImADifferentBird@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      6 months ago

      Most people don’t see cisgender as a slur. Only complete asshole transphobes do.

      Honestly, not even they do. They just lie about it as a gotcha.

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        6 months ago

        I’m not a fan of you assuming my identity. Did I ask to be referred to as that?

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          6 months ago

          I’m just pointing out that the notion that community A or an individual can decide whether some word is a slur or not in community B is ridiculous,

          As a member of group B I consider the word community a slur (purely because it is convenient for my argument to do so). Never use that word again because it is a slur and it would be ridiculous for you to say otherwise.

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          6 months ago

          I’m pretty confident the slur-status of a word is closely rated to whether or not it is used in a hateful way to refer to a people group or member of a group that is in some way disadvantaged. For example the n-word is obviously a slur and “cracker” or “whitey” obviously are not. That’s why cisgender isn’t a slur, even if people can and have use(d) it in a hateful way.