• MindTraveller@lemmy.ca
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    4 months ago

    I didn’t say bondage was invalid. I said bondage without proper safety measures is invalid.

    The woman was left to give birth alone. She had to self administer an epidural in secret. This shit ain’t vanilla!

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      4 months ago

      That shit is far and above what normal people mean when they say “traditional gender roles”. Lots of stay at home moms don’t live in abusive relationships, and equating the two is dishonest. My mom and my grandmother both stayed home with kids because it made sense to them, and both their partners showed them nothing but respect and love.