It’s not nearly as bad when you view it from a parent because for every team there’s probably not more than 2-3 really shitty, vocal parents. And usually they can be kept in check by other parents (peer pressure can and should still be a thing when used correctly at any age level, it just takes proper leadership).

When you are on the other side all you get to see and interact with 75% of the time at best is the ugly, loud and rude. Full blast.