I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.

Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.

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    judging by your profile you probably know about e621, if not, go there.

    Outside of that, i’ve been following comics and rolling archives for a few years now so i’ve done my stint. The tagging system is a huge boon, you just need to know how to correctly utilize it, it’s worth the time investment for image boards honestly.

    Once you’ve figured out tagging really the best advice i can give is to find artists that you like, and follow them. There are usually a few artists that you will really enjoy. Images are by far and wide more accessible, that’s just how it goes. Sorting by favorites and upvotes is also generally beneficial.

    you should 100% roll your own archive, it takes a long time to build up, but it’s very much worth the effort.

    anyway, you know where to find me :) (we’re instance buddies)

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      Thank you! Alas… I am indeed aware of all that. My lament is that there are almost zero 10-30 minute furry/anthro animations that really fit our tastes. There’s some nice short animations, but reeeeeally limited on stuff we can put on in the background while touching each other and stuff.

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        i figured as much lol. Generally in my experience there seem to be plenty of 0-5 minute animations, some types will generally loop as well. i think eipril generally has some longer animations? I’d have to check to be sure, but you probably know about them already lol.

        anyway, good luck to you out there in the ether, i wish you the best on your travels.

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          Much love! We’ve given up but at least we went to our first furry con.

          Which

          Was

          A time.

          A very good time.

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            Much love! We’ve given up but at least we went to our first furry con.

            every loss comes with a win i suppose. Or every win comes with a loss, whatever way you please lol.

            glad to hear you enjoyed it though. Not much of a con guy myself, i prefer being far away from people, that’s why im here :)

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              We made one single friend lawl

              We knew nobody else

              Everyone was sooooo friendly though.

              I will go again despite being insanely introverted.

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                We made one single friend lawl

                that’s nice, im sure i would also, but i just don’t really enjoy socializing much outside of an immediate group of people that know me.

                Everyone was sooooo friendly though.

                that’s the furry community when they weren’t busy yelling at people over twitter for something probably pretty stupid lol.

                I will go again despite being insanely introverted.

                hopefully you have a good time next time, best of luck!

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                  Much love!

                  My partner and I have never been on Twitter, which I think is a good thing in retrospect hahahaha

                  We also mostly stay within our immediate friend group, so I definitely am with you there. If we were more extroverted, we would have maybe met more people. But there was a single, very themed furry that we noticed, and he turned out to really want to hang out with us…. And was an incredibly cool person. And demolished my partner at beer pong like four times.

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                    My partner and I have never been on Twitter, which I think is a good thing in retrospect hahahaha

                    i was on twitter pre elon, it was still bad, but now the only thing that shows up in my timeline is religious posting, i don’t know if furries even use twitter anymore lmao.

                    It’s so much worse now, but i had to make an account to see a stupid tweet just to verify that it was real. I love the internet.

                    We also mostly stay within our immediate friend group, so I definitely am with you there. If we were more extroverted, we would have maybe met more people. But there was a single, very themed furry that we noticed

                    it tends to be like doesn’t it. I imagine that neurotic people have a sort of “neurosis radar” i have a weirdly eerie ability to pick out the weird people in a room full of people. It’s good fun though, i like talking to weird people, they have a lot more interesting things to say than normies do lol.

                    And was an incredibly cool person. And demolished my partner at beer pong like four times.

                    he was just gaming you the entire time lol.