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      2 months ago

      The joke is after 16 years finding out your husband is into cock.

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          You don’t think knowing your partner of 16 years’ sexual preferences is important?

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              It’s not that it matters, but I would feel bad that my partner didn’t feel comfortable enough to share that part of them after so long.

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                i could see that. its really not about the sex or preference, its about trust in information. that is something every relationship must contend with making this rather pedestrian

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              I get the feeling you think I’m saying this because of insecurities or something. I just think it’s important to know what your partner likes and doesn’t like. I’d feel pretty alone if I was with someone I couldn’t express my desires to even if they can’t fulfill them and wouldn’t want my partner to feel that way.