I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.

For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.

For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.

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    1 year ago

    As a dude, there are a few places I like to be touched:

    • Nipples - not sure why, but I love being touched or sucked there
    • The pelvic area where the leg joins up - I LOVE being kissed there
    • Testicles - play with it any way you want, as long as it isn’t squeezing it should be fine
    • During sex, a partner was lightly scratching my back while moaning. Made me finish on the spot.
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      1 year ago

      where the legs join up

      By any chance do you mean the perineum, i.e. “taint”? Any pressure there is very sensitive on men especially since the rest of the penis and a bunch of glands are under there.

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        1 year ago

        Ah, no - but I can imagine why you may think that.

        I just found a diagram and highlighted in red what I meant as I explained it poorly lol

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          1 year ago

          ohh okay yeah I see. I think there are a bunch of muscles there that might be nice to touch, because I can get pretty sore in that spot after a workout. a massage or any contact there would be stimulating!