• RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    Do them same - hang out with your friend group, just have fun and don’t press finding a relationship. You first get to know people through that group and later interest and maybe a relationship forms.

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      2 months ago

      You do realize that in most cases it’s lack of that friends group the whole problem?

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        2 months ago

        Then go with your colleagues or any group for that matter, book a class about something as someone suggested. 90% of life is showing up.

        If you’re too disgusting for anyone to have around, work on yourself first (basic hygiene and not being an asshole is usually enough though).

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        2 months ago

        Just get a girlfriend and join her friend group. Then after you’ve made enough friends, dump her and then you’ll have your own friends.