• LustyArgonian@lemmy.world
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    17 days ago

    Men, being in charge of the patriarchy, aren’t pushed by women. They are pushed by themselves and other men. This is patriarchy 101 and part of why you all sealioning about male abuse isn’t taken seriously anymore unless you are specifically talking about your abuse experience for emotional support. Try advocating for policies to help abuse victims instead of trying to find a creative way to say ‘women bad’ without getting flamed.

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      17 days ago

      Not gonna lie. You’re doing an awful job at advocating. I understand what you’re saying but you’re doing it in such an offputting way that I have to wonder if you even care or if this is just you venting.

      Being justified and right doesn’t mean you can act however you want in the name of that just cause. If you’re not likeable then no one is going to listen to you.

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          16 days ago

          Go police another woman.

          The fact that this was your response only demonstrates that you are an unserious person with nothing of value to add, and are in fact part of the problem.

          This is what you’re doing.

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      16 days ago

      Women aren’t bad. People who belittle and dismiss victims of abuse are bad. Nice strawman though!

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          14 days ago

          No idea what the hell you’re talking about anymore but clearly, abusing anyone is bad.

          I’m sorry that someone apparently hurt you in the past, but that’s not my fault or my problem. You should seek help from a therapist instead of just blindly lashing out at anyone who wasn’t born the same sex as you.

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            14 days ago

            Lol yet again a man shows a PROFOUND lack of empathy. Par for the course. Yes, I’m hysterical and not smiling and catering to your feelings, so I must see a therapist and be medicalized. More sexism.

            Don’t attack a whole gender? What did you all just do by electing Trump?

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              14 days ago

              Oh, you’re just a sexist. Here I was operating in good faith, my mistake I guess. You people don’t deserve it after all.

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                14 days ago

                Exactly. You were always a fascist regardless of my behavior. You were always going to be fascist and advocate for fascist things. My pleasantness or lack thereof is simply a matter of palatability and convenience for you; it doesn’t actually affect your morals because that isn’t how morals work. A black person can abuse me as much as they want and I won’t advocate for chattel slavery, for instance. I never thought black people had to earn the right to not be enslaved. Shame on you. When the Rs kill all of ypu men in wars and through shitty food, remember that scene from Mad Men - you aren’t doing it for me, because I never liked you.