• sugar_in_your_tea
      21·
      3 hours ago

      Exactly, they’re coworkers where OP isn’t certain if they were flirting or just being friendly, and other coworkers confirm she’s flirting. To me that means:

      • they don’t have a good enough relationship to tell the difference, so probably not “friends”
      • other coworkers don’t seem to experience the same thing
      • claims to not have other friends (surely she’d mention a BF, no?)

      So to me, that sounds very much like she’s flirting, so it’s totally understandable for OP to consider it a date.

      • JackbyDev@programming.devEnglish
        1·
        2 hours ago

        Facts:

        1. Anon intended for this to be a date.
        2. Anon never said this was a date.
        3. Anon never asked if she was single.