• krolden@lemmy.ml
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        1 month ago

        If theres a child out there suffering, its definitely more moral to take them in and give them love and support rather than creating a child that will possibly just end up resenting you for bringing them into such a fucked up world.

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          1 month ago

          Yeah. They address that. In excrucitiating detail. Listen, enough running circles abour it on boards. Just…watch the video, or read, i think the author’s long form written reponse which is even more exhaustive.

          Bc you can say that but then when you get into the actual root cause analysis and solutions you recognize you cant simply wave the issue off with “just adopt”, and you begin to recognize the callousness, unrealistic expecration, classism and outright anti-intellectual dismissiveness such a write-off amounts to.

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              1 month ago

              Ok.

              If someone’s thinking about a lifelong decision, it’s well worth that 3 hours of being spoonfed the dozens hours of research that went into it.

              (That’s just for whoever passes by to read this. I do not care what you do personally.)

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                1 month ago

                Being spoonfed dozens of hours of cherry-picked research is exactly the problem with lots of “youtube research” like this.

                One could do another 3 hour video on the subject “Natalism is the tool of the nazis” also rooted in cherry-picked sources.