…and what tips would you give someone less experienced to prevent them being repeated?

  • ladicius@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Don’t rub frantically on genitals like they do in porn - that’s only up to the owner of the genitals.

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      1 day ago

      Specifically relevant for cis-hetero people, idea broadly applicable to all people:

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      Or at least, dont do this without slowly building up to it first and being absolutely positive that you have enthusiastic consent, and a LOT of lubrication. Ideally, work with your partner to figure out what/how/how fast or hard they like it. The clit (and tip of the penis) can be so sensitive that over stimulation can very quickly start to feel uncomfortable.