Yuuuup. Didn’t get diagnosed until I was 32 because I was a “gifted child” and I was always held to insanely high standards. Transitioning to adulthood, those standards ingrained into me came with me. But here I am now burnt out and wondering where it all went wrong. Boom, ADHD. Everything makes so much more sense now. And being medicated helps a ton.
I had excellent grades in elementary school, then in high school it became excellent grades in subjects that interested me. It’s when I got to college and university that it became more like “struggling to get anything done at all cause I forgot about or pushed back every assignment”. A lifetime of winging it didn’t prepare me at all for courses where I couldn’t review the material 15 minutes before the exam and hope for decent grades lol
I’m in the exact same boat, except I only recently started (1 year ago) my journey to diagnosis after learning that I’ve had anxiety and depression for most of my (30 year) life without knowing that the gloom in my life isn’t normal.
Now I think Adhd might be the reason behind it all, as so much of what I’ve read about Adhd fits with what I struggle with.
I always just lived my life thinking everyone else’s life was just as shit as mine, because I didn’t lock myself in the bedroom like “real depressed people”.
Yuuuup. Didn’t get diagnosed until I was 32 because I was a “gifted child” and I was always held to insanely high standards. Transitioning to adulthood, those standards ingrained into me came with me. But here I am now burnt out and wondering where it all went wrong. Boom, ADHD. Everything makes so much more sense now. And being medicated helps a ton.
I had excellent grades in elementary school, then in high school it became excellent grades in subjects that interested me. It’s when I got to college and university that it became more like “struggling to get anything done at all cause I forgot about or pushed back every assignment”. A lifetime of winging it didn’t prepare me at all for courses where I couldn’t review the material 15 minutes before the exam and hope for decent grades lol
I’m in the exact same boat, except I only recently started (1 year ago) my journey to diagnosis after learning that I’ve had anxiety and depression for most of my (30 year) life without knowing that the gloom in my life isn’t normal.
Now I think Adhd might be the reason behind it all, as so much of what I’ve read about Adhd fits with what I struggle with.
I always just lived my life thinking everyone else’s life was just as shit as mine, because I didn’t lock myself in the bedroom like “real depressed people”.