You’re not alone in that wish. We just can’t let the fact that there’s no plan and no Daddy protecting us make us feel overwhelmed and powerless. Sadly I think this attitude was a tragic factor in the recent US election, when so many people couldn’t get past none of the choices being good enough for them so they abstained in protest. Even if we’re sick of choosing the lesser evil, we still have to or the greater evil wins. Equally true in a lot of personal life choices.