I don’t think the person on the left’s a transphobe, but I also don’t think they understand the scale of the harassment trans people face on a daily basis. Like it’s so bad the users would rather just have potential trolls ignored and downvoted than to see well meaning cis people come in and do vigilante justice using the same tactics of abuse trans people go through every day.

That empathetic disconnect looks like transphobia to some users. I don’t know that the users are right, but I understand how you reached that conclusion, especially with the person on the left’s days-long soapbox crashout about how despotic Ada is.

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    Here’s the suicide comment for anyone curious, on a post where a user was in a mental health crisis and contemplating suicide.

    Removed Comment If you’re planning on [censored] yourself, go buy a [censored] and take a red hat with you. Drag is serious. Get out if you can. Move to another country. But if you’re actually hopeless, and there’s nothing anyone can say to dissuade you… Then make it count. by Dragon Rider (drag) @lemmy.nz reason: Advocating violence, encouraging suicide

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      actually disturbing, i didn’t know the context was this dire too :(

      consider putting this in a content warning spoiler? i don’t want you getting whacked for reposting harmful content 🫶

      ::: spoiler CW: banned comment encouraging suicide

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        Good idea. Couldn’t figure out the formatting on mobile but I censored the disturbing parts. I’m sure mods will remove the comment if they deem it unfitting for the community.

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          Here’s an example if it helps,

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