I wasn’t a part of making this community, but I’ve done a little to help it grow… Here’s the rub; while I think we generally try to meme from a uniquely trans fem pov (which is awesome) there is an entire toxic form of femininity ready to latch on to this community. One only has to do a quick search on 🤮eddit to find this.
I really do love the style of memes here, but this is my plea to the mods to keep it from getting toxic. Sure, the memes can be super dark at times, but we should really keep the r/femaledaingstrategey stuff out. It’d be awesome if we can keep the comm title as mostly a joke.
This image is just a taste of what’s out there that can be toxic. Feel free to remove it, but I wanted to get a point across for all of our sakes.
This was eloquently put. Thank you. In my mind, it was initially toxic because it describes a binary that has been used heavily in online spaces that are mostly TERF in nature. There are spaces that will say things like “Oh, can’t get laid. Maybe you’re just a lesbian.” with no intended irony.