I can’t seem to pull up the lemmy.wtf one through my Kbin login. I can view it on their instance but I want to subscribe

Honestly, the one with best moderators that put effort into building and maintaining a community rather than letting it sit there. Building a space like this isn’t really luck as much as hard work. Take a look at [email protected] for example, they are promoting the community on the subreddit and being (pro)active on their instance, and it’s working. If we make it a nice place to be people will come, but it rarely happens on its own (especially with reddit looming over as established competition).

All of them can and should co-exist. The whole point of federated social media is that there’s no centralized power. More on that here: https://kbin.social/m/guildwars2/p/437854/Hi-folks-I-m-adding-a-new-rule-under-Allowed-Content

Thank you for posting these by the way; it’s important that folks are aware of other instances.