some people trigger me so easily it’s scary. Most of them are loud, lazy coworkers that somehow piss me off very easily.

Is this a normal reaction to morons?

it’s not like I want to punch them, I’m simply relaxed and work better when I don’t have to see them. They slow me down.

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    Stoicism helped me. The dichotomy of control.

    “You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this and you’ll find strength.” -Marcus Aurelius

    Basically everyone is responsible over their own thoughts and actions.

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      That’s not true. You sound like you’re white as fuck :| you don’t think there are things that can influence someone’s brain and body? Human, human technology, or a wide variety of non human things?

      Should Google (edit: Kagi*) DMT trip reports as one example.

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        You sound like you’re white as fuck

        What? what does this mean?

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          It means he’s racist, turn it around and see how you get treated by him…i bet it will become clear what he means by it.

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            Nah, he’s probably white himself. I’ve literally never seen anyone online hate white people more than themselves. It’s a weird phenomenon…

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          White people are very set in their corporate slop eating ways. They like slaving away for billionaires, some of whom buy child sex slaves with the proceeds. FYI white men are the most likely to be pedos… For some strange reason lulz

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            idk about you, but i’ve never seen a white dude with child sex slaves. wtf are you talking about?

            And every modern country slaves away for billionaires, what country are you living in that doesn’t?

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                You should go read a history book before speaking.

                I have. And yeah slavery existed just like everywhere, where do i deny that in my comment? You said that seeing a white dude with a child sex slave is some common thing.

                We still have widely practiced modern slavery in the gulf and north africa, it’s not like you are uniquely evil. Sounds to me, you are the one that should read a history book ;)

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            Idk man, those numbers are a pretty good indication that you’re wrong. Although doubling down might work this time.

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                It’s not a matter of being a hive mind, it’s agreed upon decency. I hope you’re only like this on the internet, for your sake.

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                  Lost a close family member a few days ago. Haven’t experienced loss like this before so not handling it great. Appreciate you writing this out

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                    Sorry to hear that, I hope you get through it alright. It’s easy to lash out at people when grieving, but it will eventually turn into a disservice to yourself. If you want to somebody to spill your shit too, send me a PM. Sometimes it just takes writing it out